Calista Year 8 Retrospective

Sometimes, I feel like Calista is pretty much the best kid in the world.

I love her so much. She is smart, funny, and kind, and I am privileged to call her mine.
Other times, I just want to smack her. I'm not sure if she's 17, or a toddler. Calista can get upset and have tantrums about the dumbest things.

She doesn't want to listen and be obedient, preferring to "help" in her own way, which is usually useless and takes a long time (on purpose).


Still, she is usually an excellent big sister.

Especially to Caleb, who is still little enough to forgive readily when he is annoying.

But she and Craig get along pretty well, too.

They all love to play and read together,

and I usually try to ignore them if they are enjoying themselves,

because as soon as they remember I exist, they fight and need Mom for something silly.


Calista is thriving at school.  Sometimes she comes home upset about something - usually the boys in her class saying dumb things - but most of the time loves going and learning.

She is probably the best reader in her class,

and usually ready with an answer, as long as she's paying attention and not just talking to her friends.
Outside of school, she is curious and wants to learn.

Once Calista gets over being shy, she'll ask tons of questions, absorbing all the information carefully.


Always busy, Calista loves to do lots of activities. This year was ice skating,

gymnastics - earning her tan badge,

curling,

soccer,

online piano lessons... through it all she got stronger, tougher, smarter, and better.


Calista absolutely loves art and music.

She will write her own songs on piano,

and her use of color in drawing is always striking.


As a family, we've gone all over in the last year. Trips to Banff and Calgary,

Drumheller and the dinosaur museum,

lots of time in Raymond,

and, of course, Idaho and Utah.

Calista is a fantastic traveler, usually happy to read and snack while we go.

And occasionally learn she can lick her elbow.


Par for the course for 7-year-old, Calista lost quite a few teeth this year, and is starting to grow them back.

I love her toothless smiles, although I'm sure she's happy to be able to eat apples again.


Calista also likes to play board and video games,

and even occasionally has sat in on our grown-up game night, rolling dice with the best of them, and come up with silly things for her character to do.


And, of course, Calista ended her eighth/began her ninth year by being baptized,

and we couldn't be prouder of the choices she's made and the faith she has shown.


Calista likes:
Swings
Lasagna rolls
Dark chocolate
The ocean and animals
Creating art
Music
Screen time
Reading

Calista dislikes:
Green peppers
Cleaning up
Doing hard things


August 2018

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October 2018

November 2018

 

December 2018

January 2019

February 2019

March 2019

April 2019

May 2019

June 2019

July 2019

Thanks for another year, baby girl! We love you!

Calista's Baptism Day

On July 27, 2019, Calista was baptized a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. It was a very special day.

I made her dress, and she looked so very beautiful dressed all in white.

Definitely worth the time I spent on it, seeing how happy it made her. Plus, Caleb told her she looked like a princess in white.

She and I went on a date, in her dress, to take pictures all over the Muttart Conservatory. It was so fun!

I seriously love this little girl!

We had a lot of love and support of friends and family.

My parents and sister came from Oregon to be here,

Grandpa Ken came up,

and Uncle Kirk and Aunt Rachel brought their whole family to celebrate with us.

Even those that couldn't make it sent messages and notes of support.

When planning out her baptism, we let Calista pick who would participate. One of the big surprises was when she asked Craig to give the opening prayer. Kyler and I were hesitant, but willing. We had Craig practice a time or two, and when it was time for the actual prayer at the baptism, he got up and... looked at us.

"I forgot what I'm supposed to say." 

Well, think about it and then pray. 

"But what should I pray about?" 

It's Calista's baptism, pray about that.

When he realized we weren't going to jump up and whisper in his ear, Craig gave a little sigh, and then began to pray. I don't remember exactly what he said, but it was absolutely perfect and adorable. I was so grateful that he could bring the Spirit and participate in Calista's baptism day.

We sang some lovely songs that Calista picked, "When I Am Baptized," "I'm Trying To Be Like Jesus," and "I Will Follow God's Plan for Me." She asked Aunt Loradona to play piano, and decided she wanted to conduct the music.

She did a lovely job!

My mom gave a talk on baptism, at Calista's request. Grammie May gave Calista a silver spoon to remember that baptism, the sacrament, and repentance can keep her shiny and clean, and wipe away any tarnish.

The baptism itself was performed by Kyler, with Calista's two grandfathers, Grandpa Ken and Grandpa May, serving as the witnesses.

Calista had practiced with Kyler plugging her nose and bending her knees, and they both did it perfectly.

Soaking wet, they returned to hear Calista's cousin, Ivory, give a talk on the Holy Ghost. Ivory taught Calista that the Holy Ghost is a comforter, a teacher, and can help her remember, as mentioned in John 14:26. While listening to Ivory's talk, I thought, "I hope the Holy Ghost can help Calista remember how she felt this day for many years to come."

Kyler again did the confirmation, assisted by Grandpa Ken, Grandpa May, and Bishop Johnston. Kyler blessed Calista to be able to come to know the Holy Ghost, and be able to remember the promises she has made and to obey. He also blessed her to be able to take upon herself the name of Christ so others will see Christ in her example. Kyler told Calsita she is loved and supported, and that she should lean on the people around her. Calista felt the Holy Ghost during the confirmation and cried a little bit.

Bishop Johnston then spoke a little, Grandpa May gave the closing prayer (no prompting needed from us), and we had a cookie buffet as a treat! Yum!

I was so proud of Calista for choosing to be baptized, and for her growing testimony. It was a very special day. Calista told me I could read what she wrote in her journal. An excerpt: "I felt very, very happy, and calm, safe, joyful, and... I just loved it!"

I loved it too, kiddo.

Calista: 8 is Great!

Calista begged to have a birthday party this year. At first, I said no. With grandparents coming, and her baptism, and our busy summer, it just seemed like too much. But then I thought more about it. Why does it need to be a big thing? Why not just lots of snacks and friends playing at the park? So that's what we did.

Having a summer birthday can be hard, though. We had to hand out invitations before school even got out, and so many people were out of town. Calista took it in stride, though, excited to just be able to have a party.

Before her party, I was worried we'd have to change our plans. There were thunderstorms and pouring down rain pretty much every day for at least a week before her party, and for a while, that was forecast to continue on the day of, too. But, the prayers of an almost-8-year-old were answered, and day of her party was sunny and beautiful. Yay!

And, despite many of her friends being unable to make it, everyone had a blast. They got wet and dirty, ate tons of snacks and sugar, and ran around playing for a couple of hours. The perfect afternoon.

My parents and sister came into town for Calista's baptism, but that also meant they were here for her birthday. A few days early, my mom took Calista on a date. Both of them had a blast and Calista came home with some new clothes and a cool looking cookbook.


For her actual birthday, the kids begged to open presents first thing, which was a little unexpected, but once everyone was awake and ready, we decided to oblige them.

Calista was pretty excited about her art stuff, jewelry, and Awesome 8 book,

because she's 8 and she's awesome!


After presents, we all went to Broadmoor Lake Park, and had an enjoyable morning running around,

climbing,

and getting wet.

It gave us quite the appetite for A&W for lunch.


Grandpa Ken was able to join us for dinner - lasagna rolls and cookie cake.

Yummy!

It was a fun birthday(week), and we now have one adorable eight-year-old!